Recognizing the Warning Signs of Heart Issues

By Roz Jones


As caregivers, knowing the signs of heart trouble can save lives. Spotting these warning signs early can make all the difference in getting the right care at the right time.


One time, I noticed my loved one seemed more tired than usual and was experiencing shortness of breath during activities that had never been an issue before. Trusting my instincts, I scheduled a doctor’s appointment, and it turned out to be a critical step in preventing a serious issue.

Here are key warning signs to watch for:

  1. Watch for Physical Symptoms: Chest pain, shortness of breath, fatigue, or swelling in the legs and feet are key red flags. These should never be ignored.
  2. Monitor Emotional Changes: Depression, anxiety, or unusual irritability can sometimes signal heart health issues. These emotional shifts often go hand-in-hand with physical symptoms.
  3. Trust Your Instincts: If something feels off, don’t hesitate to call the doctor or seek emergency care. Your intuition is one of the most valuable tools as a caregiver.

Being vigilant about heart health symptoms ensures your loved one receives timely care. Together, we can help prevent small issues from becoming larger health crises.

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Understanding Unspoken Needs

By Roz Jones

Sometimes, it’s not what’s being said, but what’s not being said that matters most. Aging loved ones may hesitate to express fears or concerns directly, but their body language and behaviors often speak volumes.

I’ve learned that unspoken needs are often hidden in the little details—a pause before answering, a sigh during a conversation, or a subtle change in their routine. Picking up on these cues takes practice, but it’s worth the effort to show your loved one you’re tuned in to their needs.

Tips to Accomplish This:

  1. Pay Attention to Nonverbal Cues: Watch for changes in their facial expressions, tone of voice, or body language. A furrowed brow, crossed arms, or a quieter-than-usual demeanor could indicate something is on their mind.
  2. Keep a Journal: Track patterns or moments when they seem hesitant or withdrawn. Over time, you may notice recurring themes that point to unspoken concerns.
  3. Gently Address Concerns: If you sense reluctance to share, say something like, “I noticed you seemed a little quiet when we talked about [topic]. Is there something you’d like to talk about?” This opens the door for them to express themselves without pressure.

By staying attuned to what’s unspoken, you can build a deeper understanding of their emotions and needs.

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Caregiving can be a roller coaster of ups and downs. The information that you will receive from The Caregiver Cafe Weekly Specials Newsletter will support you as a caregiver. Remember…

1. YOU ARE NOT ALONE: The problems you face as a caregiver are experienced by other caregivers. Knowing that you’re not alone can be comforting. 

2. Tools and Resources:  Find caregiver stress management tools and gain perspective from other caregiver’s experiences.

3. LEARN TO: Ask for help, accept help when it is offered, and acknowledge yourself on this caregiving journey. Hear from experts on how to balance caregiving responsibilities by taking care of your needs and involving others to help manage the natural stress and isolation of being a caregiver.